AISHA BUHARI: THE NON-CONFORMING FIRST LADY



Before the late Dr Mrs Maryam Babangida thrusted the position of the First Lady to prominence, most Nigerians saw only the wife of a Head of State who was hardly seen in public, played the role of receiving her counterparts when they came visiting from other countries and taking care of the President’s immediate family.

Aisha Babangida however changed that. She gave voice to the local women and by extension even to those in palaces. If there was any woman who opened the eyes of Nigerians to the fact that the place of the woman was not in the kitchen alone, it was the late First Lady.

She surely laid a foundation for many others who followed her to showcase their own dreams towards betterment of womenfolk as well as the nation at large. While Maryam Abacha did not follow her pattern, her pet project, the Children hospital was taken over and later turned to the National Hospital which is the nation’s foremost health institution to date. Then Fati Lami Abubakar, who succeeded Maryam Abacha initiated the Women Right Advancement and Protection Alternative which ever since then has bene at the vanguard of women right advocacy. Subsequently, Obasanjo’s late wife, Stella introduced her own pet project but it was the one put up by Titi Atiku Abubakar, named WOTCLEF, which focused on eradication of women trafficking that eventually stood out and served as a precursor to toady’s NAPTIP.

While Turai Yar Adua was too busy with her husband’s health issues to settle down and leave anything tangible, her successor, Dame Patience Jonathan conceived a Cancer Centre. It was not yet in operation before her husband was voted out.

One thing about all these projects was their altruistic motives as well as the impact most of them left in the lives of the citizenry. NAPTIP has become a major force in the eradication of human trafficking in Nigeria as well as defence of the rights of women and children. The National Hospital as stated earlier has also become reference point for hospitals in the country.

 Subsequently, programmes initiated by other occupants of the office have left indelible imprints in the lives of Nigerians

AISHA BUHARI AND FUTURE ASSURED

Future Assured is an initiative founded by Aisha Buhari to continue her advocacy work for the health and well-being of women and children through community mobilization and health promotion. Aisha was prompted by the need to improve the current poor health outcomes of women, children and other vulnerable groups of the Nigerian population, and Aisha affirmed her commitment to this work at a stakeholders meeting held at the presidential villa and a public launch of Future Assured programs at the sidelines of the United Nations General Assembly held in New York on 29 September 2015.

 Aisha is currently working with the Internally Displaced Persons in Nigeria which is as a result of the Boko Haram insurgency that has plagued the country since 2009. She set up a committee to deal with the distribution of relief materials after a visit to an IDP camp in Borno Northeast Nigeria. On Tuesday, June 11, 2019, Aisha Buhari empowered 2000 women in Yola, Adamawa State at the event organized by Aisha Buhari Foundation with the National Directorate of Employment (NDE). Aisha launched a Green School Agricultural Initiative at Aliyu Mustafa College, Yola, on June 11, 2019. She also encouraged young people to embrace Agriculture.

When Buhari took office, he stated categorically that his wife would be at the background in the scheme of things. Indeed, until about JUNE 2019, when he had won his second term in office, his wife was not given the title of First lady, rather, it was wife of the President. And when the change in title was to be effected it was Aisha Buhari herself who announced it.

But then not a few people asked, ‘what is in a title?” After all Aisha Buhari had in her first few years in office dared to upset the order in the Presidency so much so that whether or not you call her First Lady, she indeed was the first lady to open the underbelly of the power house and expose the power play that goes with sharing of spoils of elections.

WHO IS AISHA BUHARI?

There is no doubt that she was born with a pedigree. Aisha Buhari was born on 17 February 1971 in Adamawa State, Northeastern Nigeria. Her grandfather Alhaji Muhammadu Ribadu was Nigeria's first minister of defence. While her father was a civil engineer.  Aisha Buhari went to primary and secondary school in Adamawa State. On 2 December 1989, Aisha married Muhammadu Buhari, who had five children from a previous marriage to Safinatu Yusuf. Aisha and Muhammadu Buhari have five children together and one grandchild.

 The Nigerian First Lady holds a bachelor of arts degree in public administration from Ambrose Alli University (AAU), and a master's degree in international affairs and strategic studies from the Nigerian Defence Academy, Kaduna. Aisha obtained a diploma in beauty therapy from the Carlton Institute of Beauty Therapy, Windsor, United Kingdom. Aisha Buhari holds a post-graduate diploma in cosmetology and beauty from Academy Esthetique Beauty Institute of France. Aisha is a member of the United Kingdom Vocational Training and Charitable Trust and the International Health and Beauty Council.

For years, Mrs. Buhari ran a successful business as the founder/managing director of Hanzy Spa and principal of Hanzy Beauty Institute, a beauty salon in Kaduna and Abuja. Aisha is a resource person to the National Basic Technical Education on beauty therapy and cosmetology and has participated in the curriculum development of small medium enterprises for NBTE. Aisha closed her beauty salon following the emergence of her husband as president of Nigeria.

Aisha has published a book titled Essentials of Beauty Therapy: A Complete Guide for Beauty Specialists, which has been recommended as a text for the NBTE curriculum.

Aisha Buhari is a vocal advocate of women's rights and children rights, and this was a focal point during her campaign for her husband's election in 2015. Aisha has, on several occasions, emphasized the need for young girls to get primary and secondary school education before getting married, saying that she believes no girl should get married before the age of  

In May 2015, on the sidelines of the Global Women Conference held in Buenos Aires, Argentina, she stressed the need for Nigerian laws that will protect the women from forced early marriages, sex trafficking and other issues Nigerian girls and women contend with. Aisha raised concerns on child sexual abuse in Nigeria, sex trafficking and the need for legislation against early marriage.

 

Five and a half years into her husband’s tenure, the First lady has been involved more in self-preservation battles than leaving a legacy. Indeed, the self-preservation efforts have at times, generated so much controversy that many wondered whether it would not have been better for her to take wait till after her husband’s tenure and throw in her cap for an elective post. This is because, there have been times when she spoke the mind of opposition rather than that of her husband or the ruling party. Blunt, yes. Tact, maybe not.

For instance, in October 2016, Aisha Buhari said that she would not back her husband if he were to run in the next election unless he got a grip on his government. According to her, many of those who worked for his election were side lined while those who did not work with him were the ones who decided who got what. It was a shocking remark because it reflected te thinking and talk in many Abuja circles that those who were not there with the President when he campaigned and who never knew his promises to the people were the people he now surrounded himself with. Of course, the President reacted to the allegation. He responded that she belonged in his kitchen, saying "I don't know which party my wife belongs to, but she belongs to my kitchen and my living room and the other room."

It didn’t end there.

Aisha and her daughter raised issues about the State House Clinic which was supposed to serve those in the Presidency. They raised alarm over lack of drugs in the clinic despite the billions of naira that was allocated to the place. Not a few Nigerians noted the fact that the indictment was on a system her husband had promised to fight but remained indefatigable. Many wondered if she companied about the Villa clinic, what she would say if she visited the ones the commoners use.

When in 2018, his younger brother was not allowed to pick the ticket of APC as the guber candidate in Adamawa, Aisha took Oshiomhole to the cleaners. She confirmed the well-known fact that the APC guber tickets were for the highest bidder. Not many people were surprised with the information, but many were surely taken aback that it was the President’s wife who came to wash the dirty linen of the ruling party in public.

As the APC formed its own campaign team for her husband’s re-election, Aisha Buhari launched hers not minding the fact that some of the people whose names appeared in one team were in the other.

After her husband’s re-election, the wife of the President surprised Nigerians when she made it known that her role as the wife of the president of Nigeria will be limited to whatever is constitutionally recognized, as Aisha promised not to overstep. At the presentation of awards to wives of governors, on Thursday, June 13, 2019, Aisha Buhari adopted the title of first lady five years after President Buhari said he would scrap the office.

 

In October 2019, Fatima Daura the daughter of Mamman Daura accused Aisha of verbally abusing her and attacking her family. Fatima recorded a video of Aisha ranting inside the presidential villa in Abuja and submitted the video to the press. Fatima Daura said she recorded the video because no one would have believed her if she made those claims without evidence.

 

Aisha Confirmed she was indeed the one in the video and alleged that Fatima Daura mocked her while recording her. She later apologized to her family and the Federal Republic of Nigeria in a statement through her spokesman, Suleiman Haruna. She explained she was angry because Mamman Daura and his family denied her access to some parts of the Presidential Villa after President Buhari ordered Mamman Daura and his family out of the Villa.

There is no end to listing the cases and situations in which the First Lady has generated so much controversy that she forced herself to trend on the social media.

Only a few days ago, at the beginning of the ENDSARS protest in Nigeria, she was on Twitter as usual and in a show of solidarity with the protesters Twitted a song which was a wake-up call to her husband to make the country secure.

 

PLAYING TO THE GALLERY OR SIMPLY REFUSING TO CONFORM

Every society has deviants who choose to sow their own uniform in a non-conforming way, break ranks with the society or community and do their own thing their own way. These social deviants hardly care what others think about their actions or the repercussions for their positions. They break protocols for the fun of it. They thread where angels fear to thread. They are not the type to chicken out of fights and they don’t see any reason why they have to follow you to tow the path others thread especially if it does not suit them or it has not achieved the expected goal. They are deviants and they love being who they are.

Aisha Buhari many times have behaved like one. The only problem is that before now, Nigerians have not had deviants in such high posts so they do not know how it feels. Deviants choose their battles quietly to show who they are. Aisha Buhari always ensures that almost always when she has to play her deviant card, it is in support of the right so that when you hear about it, you will say she is fighting for the right cause. For instance, when she took on Oshiomhole and the APC leadership over her brother being denied the Adamawa Gubernatorial ticket, the issue was already in public discourse. APC had had issues with its primaries in many states with the issue of money exchanging hands during the primaries being raised in at least ten states of the Federation.

Again when she criticized government’s empowerment programme through which the Federal government claimed to have been sharing cash to people. Nigerians applauded her criticism. Even when it became a back and forth issue between her and Maryam Uwais, her husband’s aide. Nigerians Still knew who was telling the truth and who was covering up something.

When the story of Aisha Buhari is written, after her husband leaves power, she will definitely be remembered maybe not for building structures or institutions but for standing out and adding a voice to the cries of the voiceless, whenever they cried out.   

She might have cried out especially when her rights or those of her kids were trampled upon, which is common with every mother hen, there is no doubt that she didn’t set out to court attention with her criticisms of the system.